Why Consistent Follow-Up Over Two Years Closed a Deal Most Loan Officers Would Have Given Up On

May 13, 20263 min read

Why Consistent Follow-Up Over Two Years Closed a Deal Most Loan Officers Would Have Given Up On

The Follow-Up Story That Surprises Everyone Who Hears It

Most loan officers would have stopped calling after a few months of silence. No response, no callback, no engagement. At some point the conclusion seems obvious. This person is not interested. Move on.

But here is what happens when you do not move on.

The System Behind the Persistence

The follow-up process that Alex Mysinek uses starts with twelve structured touchpoints. Calls, text messages, and emails that create consistent contact in the early stages of a relationship and make it easy for the prospect to reach back when the timing is right for them.

After those initial twelve touchpoints the system does not stop. It creates a task every three days to make a call. Check in. Remind them who you are. Let them know you are available if they have questions or need anything. Keep the door open without pressure.

That cadence continued for almost two and a half years with one particular prospect. Seventy calls across that timeline without a meaningful response. Not because the prospect was hostile or uninterested in ever buying a home. Because the timing was not right yet.

What Happened on the Other End of That Call

Then one day the phone rang. The prospect called back ready to buy a home, get pre-approved, and move forward. The deal closed.

When Alex Mysinek shares this story with others in the industry the reaction is almost always the same. Those people actually bought a house? The assumption most loan officers operate under is that silence means no and that no means stop calling. The follow-up that feels like persistence from the loan officer's side feels like availability from the prospect's side. When they are ready the person who stayed in touch is the person they call.

Why Most People Stop Too Early

The mortgage business runs on timing and timing is almost entirely outside the control of the loan officer. A prospect who is not ready to buy today may be ready in six months, eighteen months, or two years. There is no reliable way to know when that moment will arrive. What is reliable is that when it does arrive the loan officer who stayed consistently present is in a dramatically better position than the one who stopped calling after the third unanswered message.

The conventional wisdom in sales is to qualify quickly and move on from people who do not engage. In mortgage lending that wisdom misses the fundamental reality of how people make major financial decisions. They do it on their own timeline not on the timeline of the person selling to them.

The Rule That Keeps the Door Open

The approach Alex Mysinek describes has a simple underlying principle. Keep following up until the person explicitly tells you to stop. Not implied disinterest through silence. An explicit request to stop reaching out.

Even then the door is left open. A simple acknowledgment that you will respect their request and a genuine invitation to reach out if anything changes. Because you never know.

The persistence that other loan officers see as a waste of time is what builds a pipeline that converts months and years into the future. The deals that seem impossible to predict are often the result of consistency that started long before anyone was paying attention.

Alex Mysinek works with buyers when they are ready and stays in touch until that moment arrives. Reach out to Alex Mysinek to start the conversation whenever the timing is right for you.


Sources

HousingWire.com NationalMortgageProfessional.com MortgageNewsDaily.com Entrepreneur.com Forbes.com

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